When you know you are part of the divine plan, you stop demanding. Then you know everything is being done for you. You are taken care of. Patience in the mind and dynamism in action is the right formula.
Ashram is for three things: 1) Learn what you don’t know or teach what you know, 2) do Seva, and third is rest, not the body, but the mind. When the mind is at rest and the body is working then Ashram becomes heaven!