Let’s not blame time, all time is good. You only have to make good use of it. What appears to be bad time is an opportunity to do something better, move into another realm.
When someone blames you, they take away some negative karma from you. If you understand this, you will only feel happy about it.
When you praise someone, you take on their good Karma. When you blame someone, you take on their bad Karma.
If you throw blame, the blame will come back to you. If you give compliments, you will see it come back to you many folds. This is the law of attraction: whatever you throw bounces back onto you.
The first rule on the spiritual path is to stop blaming yourself, because whom so ever you blame, do you like to be with them? Do you like to be with someone you are unhappy with? No! So, if you blame yourself, you can’t be with yourself.
When you are in the world, there will be some pleasant experiences and some unpleasant experiences. There will be some blame and some praise, all of this will happen, but none of these should touch you, you should just keep moving ahead.
Always give compliments and you will see that comes back to you many folds, and if you throw blame, it will come back to you. This is the law of attraction. Whatever you throw bounces back onto you.
When you throw blame, blame will come back to you. If you show humility and throw compliments on the other person, that will bounce back to you.
When you recognize politics in any group or Satsang, that is a blessing, an opportunity for you to be centered and go inward. You will not blame the group, run away from people, or chicken out, and you will enhance your skill to act while being unattached.
If you go to the Master and say, "That person is blaming me", then he would say, "Good, let them blame you more". I also do this. Suppose someone says, "This person is troubling me", I say, "I will ask them to trouble you even more". Why? That is how you get rid of your ego.
We have not learned how to express ourselves, and we say others misunderstand us. We put the blame on others that no one understands us.
We need to keep our attention on ourselves: What is my contribution to this world. What have I done for others. How useful have I been to the people around me? If our thoughts are moving in this direction, then we will not blame others or hurt others. Otherwise, we are always finding fault in others and lashing out of them.
When someone blames you, they actually take away some negative karma from you. Understand this and don't put up resistance. Feel happy and lighter about it. Outside you may resist, but inside if you don't resist, and feel happy that somebody is there to blame me and take some negative karma, you will feel immediately lighter.